Bethy, also known as DeathByBethy on Discord, is a prominent yet controversial figure within the Bradley the Dragon community. She is often referred to as the "gunt guarder" of Bradley the Dragon. Described by herself as "built like a lineman," Bethy is known for hoarding cats and dogs and for her interest in playing World of Warcraft. Her initial connection with Brad was made through what some have labeled "catfishing" on Second Life.
Role in the Community
Bethy has a complex and polarizing relationship with the community. She gained full control of Brad's Discord server, The Dragon's Cave, after Brad's account was deleted. During her management, she banned numerous long-time and highly valued community members, leading to a significant decline in server activity. While she remains active behind the scenes, her influence has been criticized by many who believe she exercises undue control over Brad's online presence.
Controversies and Criticism
Bethy's tenure as the head of The Dragon's Cave has been marred by controversy. Members of the community accuse her of manipulating Brad and speculate about the nature of their relationship, with some alleging a possible romantic involvement. Her resemblance to Brad’s current GF, Lizzy, has only fueled these rumors. Bethy has also been accused of having access to Brad's various online accounts, and some claim she may even have control over his financial accounts.
Bethy's detractors view her as a disruptive force within the community, often alleging that she uses her influence to ban or drive away those she dislikes. Moderation of the server is reportedly handled in private channels, with critics dubbing these spaces as echo chambers where moderators collaborate without community transparency.
Current Status
As of 2024, Bethy remains a divisive figure. While her supporters see her as a protective force over Bradley, detractors accuse her of controlling and undermining the community. Her actions continue to evoke strong reactions, with accusations of secrecy, manipulation, and heavy-handed moderation further fueling animosity within the fanbase.